"Children Are A Heritage..."
T oday I read this article that made me feel so awful. I felt so sick that someone was talking in such a way. Look ma'am, if you don't want children, you don't have to have any more. But how dare you mistreat an innocent child? How can you talk in such a way?
I was relieved as I got near the end of the article and saw that someone else had written too, giving all the reasons why children are wonderful! It wasn't just one sided, they had both sides.
I wanted to tell the first woman that she was incredibly selfish, and the second I wanted to cheer her for standing up for the little ones.
"The truth is that becoming a parent makes you less selfish - it forces you to devote yourself to another being more than to yourself.
It allows you to experience the joys and challenges of that little person's life as they live it."
Children are such a blessing. Yes, they are a lot of work. Yes, I am sure it hurts to give birth. Life is not all rosy anytime let alone with children in the house. But you know what, it is worth it. It is worth all the sticky messes, all the hours of cooking, you'll find your reward in watching them gulp it down and thank you for making something so delicious. And when they complain about how they hated it, you can teach them how to be thankful and tell them about all those who don't have anything to eat, and would be glad for some crumbs.
As an older sister cooking and baking for those older and younger, cleaning weekly and spending hours ironing fresh clean clothes. I do have a little of an idea of the work involved. At least the housework anyway. :P
And as I am sure you got the gist, no I don't have children, but I am from a semi-large family. I spend a lot of time with children, especially babies when there is one around. I am not all-together blind and I read a ton. I am not stupid (at least I hope not), I know it is a lot of work. But I still love children. And I think it is worth all the work. It is worth all the pain and heartache.
You'll spend hours on your knees praying for them, it will draw you closer to God. I do believe that in the end it will be worth it all. Maybe someday I'll have an opportunity to discover it really for myself but for now and I don't plan on changing my opinion, I will repeat myself...I am sure it is worth it.


